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Elizabeth Adeney
Fame: Elizabeth Adeney

It's time to stop this hypocrisy over older mums

Dr Christian Jessen
20 May 2009


Rather like X Factor surprise Susan Boyle, Elizabeth Adeney is currently experiencing her 15 minutes of fame as she becomes Britain's oldest mother at 66.

Having undergone IVF treatment using a donor egg, she is now eight months into her pregnancy.

Boyle was written off before she'd even opened her mouth for her looks and age.

There is clearly a huge amount of age-related prejudice against women and this is nowhere more apparent than in older mothers.

Certainly influenced by some crustier members of the medical establishment tut-tutting over the possible risks to mother and baby of conceiving later in life, public intolerance has increased and led to comments being posted on blogs that older mothers, such as Adeney, are "selfish", "irresponsible" and "harmful".

When men become fathers at a ripe old age they are congratulated and celebrated. The media rejoiced with David Jason when he became a father aged 61, and also with Gordon Brown at 54.

But recent research has shown that older fathers can be less tolerant of their children, seeing them as impulsive and overactive.

There is also a study reporting that the offspring of older fathers have a significantly increased risk of autism - six times higher than children of fathers under 30, while the mother's age did not affect autism risk. But none of this has stopped the laddish back-slapping.

Of course, there are risks associated with older pregnancies: mothers are more likely to get high blood pressure, diabetes and may more often require a Caesarean delivery.

But these are well anticipated and not unseen in younger women too. Provided she is carefully monitored during pregnancy, all should be well for Elizabeth Adeney.

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What a welcome change of tone from a newly overhauled Evening Standard. i.e. it appears fair to women, intelligent and honest. Bravo, Mr editor! Now the paper does reflect the good fair people of Britain.

- Nadine Stavonina De Montagnac, Birmingham, UK, 09/06/2009 03:29
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The point is that older men still produce their children naturally. Older women have an artificially induced pregnancy with all the risks that that implies. And an older man is going to have a much younger wife; even he dies, the mother is there for the child. It is not just senseless prejudice against older women that makes people dislike a 66 year old having a child. it is concern for the child and concern about the motives of a woman of this age wanting a child at any cost.

- Damozel, London UK, 27/05/2009 12:33
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I never congratulated and celebrated men became fathers at a ripe old age!
The mother is 66 years old, when she's 86 her child 26 !
Please, just THINK ABOUT THIS CHILD!

- Clement, Marseille France, 22/05/2009 10:45
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