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So I went along to Mayfair where — apparently — the fans of such sexcapades can be found, to ask passers-by if they had ever been to a sex party.

No
Lorna, 23, dancer
"I definitely wouldn't ever go. God, no! It's cheap and I wouldn't do anything with people I didn't know."

Yes
Neil, 26, recruitment consultant
"I went to Torture Garden and it was mental. There were dildos, full leather outfits. Of course I got involved. There's a couples room you go in and it's dark and my girlfriend and I had sex in there, it was quite open and cool to do so."

No
Keith, 29, professional rugby league player
"They've never appeared on my radar. As a sportsman, these things seem to come a little bit easier than they might for most. So there's no real need for me to go to them."

No
Gareth, 31, civil servant
"Friends have been. They experience pretty much everything. It's no holds barred and they all just muck in and enjoy it. I've had all the graphic details but they're unrepeatable."

No
Amy, 27, civil servant
"Where are these parties? I like the sound of it and I'd like to check it out. I'm living a very different life here than I would at home in Australia and I'm in an anything goes' phase."

Yes
Miles, 42, company director
"It was a bit of a waste of money but it was fun. This one was looking only, we couldn't get involved, so we had to go and see prostitutes afterwards to finish ourselves off because we were so turned on."

No
Natasha, 22, student
"I've heard about big orgies, but I've never been. I'd probably go along to check it out — just to be a bit of a pervert really — but I wouldn't get involved."

No
Ryan, 25, hospital worker
"My fraternity parties in the States were a lot like sex parties. But the real thing wouldn't be my cup of tea."

No
Lisa, 26, dancer
"I might consider it. You should never say never. I don't know anyone who has been, or anyone honest enough to say they have."

No
David, 30, professional rugby league player
"I know someone who has been. Apparently he quite enjoyed it, but I think he's a sex addict. He didn't tell me many details. Just that he went to a party with a female friend and they had fun'."