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Last updated at 22:11pm on 11.06.08

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Sam Leeson

'Alternative appearance': Sam Leeson was found hanged in his room

A teenager said to have been bullied on the social networking site Bebo has been found hanged in his bedroom.

Sam Leeson's family say the 13-year-old was picked on by other users of the site because of his 'alternative appearance' and his taste in music.

Blaming Bebo for his 'utterly pointless death', Sam's mother said the family discovered the extent of the bullying only when they checked his Web page after his death.

'I'm not sure what influence these sites have  -  but if they are a method of expressing things, maybe they should be checked more,' said 45-year-old Sally Cope.

'He was into his appearance and often wore his black skinny jeans. He was an alternative dresser and I think other teenagers did used to make comments about that.'

Bebo users who taunted Sam on the site have since left messages apologising for their conduct.

Sam was a fan of alternative rock bands such as the Foo Fighters and Slipknot, as well as so-called Emo music, championed by bands such as blink-182 and Good Charlotte.

The movement takes its name from the word emotional  -  a reference to its angst-ridden lyrics and melancholy themes.

It has become increasingly popular with British teenagers since its inception in the U.S. two decades ago.

Followers see the genre as much as a fashion as a style of music. Many dye their hair black and wear dark clothing.

Sam's sister, Emma, 22, said he had also been bullied at school over his interest in the music.

'He used to laugh about it when people mocked him over his dress sense and music taste, so we didn't realise it was anything serious.

'We saw him as always happy and smiling, but we now think there has been some name-calling about the whole Emo thing.

'We know some bullying has been going on. We do not want to attack the school, as they have been very good, but we are very upset it has come to this.'

Sam, of Tredworth, Gloucestershire, was found on Thursday by his mother, Sally Cope, and another sister, Katie, 12, when they returned from a short shopping trip.

A short time before, Sam had seemed 'perfectly normal', answering the door to a friend of Katie, Miss Cope added.

'He was such a loving boy. We all loved him very much and he was always telling us how much he loved us.'

Sam was one of five children born to Miss Cope and Chris Leeson, a 39-year- old builder.

The couple never married, but were together 11 years before parting five years ago. Mr Leeson has two young children with his new partner.

Miss Cope, a tutor who works with disadvantaged youths, called for greater monitoring of teenage boys in schools, particularly 'quiet, hardworking' ones such as her son.

'I have seen from my work that there are plenty of resources thrown at those who have become disengaged with the educational system, or society generally,' she said.

'But the ones who don't disrupt the class, who do what they are told, like Sam, can be overlooked.'

Peter Rowland, headmaster at Severn Vale School, paid tribute to Sam as a 'wonderfully creative' writer who would be a 'great loss' to the school.


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People don't seem to realise that Internet bullying goes on and can be as harmful to the victim as off net bullying. This poor lad is just another victim and this story will no doubt fade into the background as so many suicides do. But Sam's friends and family will NEVER forget this and we shouldn't either. We should take action now. We need to educate our kids. We need to make them see that bullying is bullying no matter how it's done.

R.I.P Sam, my heart goes out to your family and friends.

- M.Graham, Scarborough, UK

I was teased at school for liking the Pet Shop Boys rather than Bros or Curiosity and I know comments can be very hurtful, and make you feel very insecure. I am sure none of the BEBO posters actually considered the effects their collective comments may have made though, and it wasn't done maliciously.

I do feel very sad that this young lad was made to feel so bad about himself for being an individual rather than a sheep that he took his own life.

May your soul now sing freely to whatever tune it wants.

- Smb, London, UK

....If this kid only listened to Madonna we wouldn't be reading this story.

Countless bands from the Beatles to Floyd were influenced by drug taking and tripped out lyrics - it was acceptable then....

How many more examples do we need before we realize that the media is so out of touch with British society it may as well be reporting from the Falklands.

It's failed us on pseudo "gang-crime" by striking fear into the minds of the average citizen (apparently 2 or more kids = gang).

- Jon, London, UK

Don't be a bully

R.I.P Sam

- Danny Saunders, Herne Bay


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