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Cotton wool parenting 'is holding our children back', says study

Last updated at 01:20am on 04.08.08

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Over-protective parents are harming their children's development by banning them from 'dangerous' pursuits such as climbing trees, a study has concluded.

Half of children aged seven to 12 have been stopped from climbing trees, one in five are forbidden to play conkers and 17 per cent are not even allowed to play tag, researchers found.

While 70 per cent of parents said their own greatest childhood adventures were among rivers, trees and woods, only 29 per cent of today's children said their favourite play experiences were outdoors.

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While 73 per cent of seven to 12-year-olds could surf the internet unsupervised, 42 per cent were not allowed to play in their local park without an adult.

A third could not ride a bike to a friend's house or play in their local streets unsupervised.

But the survey of 1,030 children and 1,030 adults found many parents were too busy to watch their children playing.

Adrian Voce, director of the charity Play England that carried out the research, said: 'It's not the end of the world if a child has an accident. 

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Playing is an essential part of growing up and adventurous play that both challenges and excites children helps instil critical life skills.

'Constantly wrapping children in cotton wool can leave them ill-equipped to deal with stressful or challenging situations they might encounter later in life.

Three times as many children are put in hospital each year from falling out of bed as from tumbling from a tree, the researchers said.

Penny Nicholls, director of the Children's Society, which runs 80 charity projects for children across the country, said parents were over-anxious about play.

She added that schools and other groups looking after children feared legal action in case of accidents.


 

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It's not only the parents, it's the health and safety mafia and over-regulation in general. All over the country volunteer organisations for children and young people are closing down in the face of liability lawsuits, insurance costs, compulsory (but useless) records checks, and health and safety laws that either outright ban having fun, or impose rules that are impossible to comply with and expenses that cannot be afforded. And parents themselves are scared that if their child needs hospital treatment, they will be accused of child abuse, or neglect for allowing an accident to be possible.

Yet the only good way to learn not to bang one's thumb with a hammer is to do it once. It was once called the school of hard knocks, and it works!

- Nigel, London

Some of my favourite childhood memories were playing in my local woods and climbing trees for hours with my friends and my pet dog!


- Ailsa Macfarlane, London


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