London's escort girls
By John Arlidge Last updated at 00:00am on 02.10.03
Dinner date: Sofia tells writer John Arlidge how she makes £4,000 in a week
As 'La Madame Anglaise' faces a trial in France for running a multi-million-pound vice network, a classy escort girl in London tells how she runs her lucrative career and charges £550 for the pleasure of dining with her.
John Lennon's Woman is playing in the lobby of the £300-a-night central London hotel. It is 8.45pm on a weekday. I have £550 cash in an envelope in my pocket and I am looking for "Sofia".
A 6ft 2in woman in black patent-leather heels click-clacks through a crowd of American business executives and sits on a leather sofa. She reaches inside her Miu Miu bag, dabs some Marc Jacobs perfume on her neck and makes a call on her top-of-the-range mobile. "Sofia?" I ask. She smiles, stands up, and holds out a perfectly manicured hand.
I don't usually pick up women in hotel lobbies and take them to my room but I've come to find out about the world of £1,000-a-night escorts exposed in the Paris trial of Margaret MacDonald, the former convent school girl from Windsor who faces six years in prison for running a multi-million-pound vice network.
The scale of MacDonald's £50,000-aweek, 600-prostitute empire has sparked a political scandal in Paris - a city where prostitution was once treated with a shrug and an "Eh alors?". French politicians, galvanised by the rise of the far-Right, want to make an example of her and clamp down on the world's oldest profession.
It begs a question. Has criticism of "La Madame Anglaise" hit London's high-class sex industry or is it continuing discreetly as it always has done? What does "high-class" mean and how does the industry work?
Spend five minutes on the internet and it's clear that in London - unlike Paris - the high-end escort business has never been healthier. There is a bewildering variety of agencies whose websites groan with catalogues of models, air stewardesses, housewives, students and bored-looking aerobics instructors.
For a monthly subscription one website, imaginatively entitled Captain69, even offers reviews of thousands of girls written by their regular clients, as if the women were restaurants or a West End play.
I pick one agency at random and dial the west London number. "How can I help?" asks a male voice. I tell him I'd like a dinner companion. "What are you looking for?" Someone who is good to talk to and we can sort of take it from there. He ignores the hint. One word that is never mentioned over the phone is sex.
"I can highly recommend Sofia, an English lady. She is attractive, very well-spoken and charming. She is available tonight. A dinner date is £550. Usually ladies meet the clients in the room first to sort things out financially."
Five minutes after we meet, Sofia is standing by the bed in my hotel room. I hand her the envelope in my pocket. She counts the cash and we head out. In the hotel restaurant she settles into her banquette seat and adjusts her off-the-shoulder top to reveal the red strap of a La Perla bra. But she's not flirting, she's getting comfortable.
She wants to talk - about herself. She is 24 and comes from York, where she took three A-levels, followed by a one-year art course. She moved to London to go to Chelsea Art School to study textile design. She'd like to set up her own business or go into visual merchandising in a big store, such as Liberty's, but she is "doing this" now.
Sofia tells me she is interested in riding and skiing, and wants to learn a foreign language "to get more overseas work". What is she up to this week? I ask. "I'm house hunting in Knightsbridge, with my friend Emma, who used to work for Lehman Brothers in the City but does what I do now." Horses, Louis Vuitton bags, west London, City banks, foreign trips - her list of passions goes on.
DOES her life story sound convincing, I ask myself ? As she tells me more about her family, her school life and her friends, it is clear she is the child of a respectable, professional couple who would be horrified if they knew how she was using her education. But with her love of shopping, Knightsbridge flats and overseas travel - not to mention envelopes of cash - she shares the aspirations celebrated in the pages of Hello! magazine rather than middleclass Yorkshire values.
We've been talking for two hours now, the wine is flowing and Sofia begins to reveal another side to her character. "I have to move house to Knightsbridge because it's central. I want to do more day appointments." Day? I thought escorts only did dinner dates? "I make most of my money at lunchtimes and in the afternoon. With most men it's just a quick hour." A quick hour of what? Silence. Then she smiles. "Sex. Don't tell me you didn't know?"
I begin to ask how the high-class business works. Sofia gives a startling, and remarkably frank, account of how one of the most secretive industries in London operates and how thousands of educated women like her see it as a legitimate - and highly lucrative - way of making a living.
"Most escorts, even the ones who charge £800 an hour and go to the opera or embassy parties or polo matches, will end up in bed with a client," she says. "In my entire career I've only ever had one date that did not involve sex, and that was because he couldn't manage it. Escorts are ..." She pauses. She can't say the word prostitute.
I ask her about the trial of Margaret MacDonald. Is it possible MacDonald had no idea her escorts were having sex? "No way. Does anyone think men pay £500 an hour just to talk?" Does she always go to five-star hotels? "No, most of my work is in-calls." What's an incall? "It's when the client comes to you.
The agency makes me rent a room in Earl's Court, so that the men can come there. When I get a place in Knightsbridge I'll use that."
I ask how much she earns. Sofia reaches into her bag and pulls out a notebook: her "little black book". She opens a page at random. The names of as many as four men a day - François, Tony, Ian, David - are listed in red with details of what they pay. An in-call is £250 an hour, an out-call £300, three-ways (lesbian sex with another escort) is £600 an hour, dinner dates start at £550 and foreign trips are £15,000 a week with first-class travel and five-star hotel accommodation.
At the bottom of the page she lists her net and gross earnings for each week with a pencil tick through the sums she has banked. That week she made more than £4,000. "My rates are pretty much the top regular working rates." What is the agencies' cut? (Sofia works for two).
"They get 30 per cent. I pay cash into their accounts almost every day." As she talks, it's clear she admires the people behind these services as successful business executives.
She makes her job sound like any other. There are regular working hours, commission to pay, expenses to claim and contracts to sign. "The contracts are very clever. They can't mention sex, so they say that girls will be paid £40 an hour for their company and anything after that is between two consenting adults." Upmarket escorts charge up to 10 times as much as the women who stick cards in telephone boxes across London. What, I ask, makes a highclass escort different?
She says: "You have to look good and dress well. My friend once turned up without her hair done and she was wearing pink stilettos and a white denim skirt. She looked like a boulevard hooker and the client turned her away. You have to be enthusiastic, too. Some of the street girls from eastern Europe don't make any effort, like they hate the client. I can't do that because the agency's reputation would suffer.
"Other rules are crude but if you want to know, they are: no unprotected sex, no sado-masochism or violence, no anal." Is kissing allowed? "Yes."
WHO knows what she does? Her family? Her friends? Her boyfriend? "No one," she replies, looking awkward for the first time. "My mum and dad would disown me if they found out and my boyfriend [who is older than her, lives in St John's Wood and works most nights] would kill me. I tell everyone I work in a designer shop."
So she's ashamed? "No," she says. "There are pluses to this work. Before I started I was a quivering wreck but I'm confident now. I've gone to places and done things that I would never have done if I had not met the men I've met. And I'm not the only one.
"I know a lot of girls - like Emma, who has a law degree and has worked in the City - who do this. They choose this. To us, it's as ordinary as going to work in an office or a big business. We have rights and we like our employers. The only difference between this and an office job is I'm much better paid."
But doesn't she feel degraded, or scared she will be attacked, raped or worse? Doesn't she feel contempt for the men she sees? "There are minuses. Your soul - you've got to protect that. If I have kids, I wouldn't want them knowing I was an escort. But I've never had a client I did not like.
"Thirty per cent are now regulars. I don't think they're sad, men have this need - they think with their dicks. I bet escort agencies have saved a lot of marriages. Overall, I'd say I'm 70 per cent happy. That's not bad, is it? I will do this until I am 32 or 33, which is the limit, then I'll either open a shop on Regent Street selling shoes or I'll set up my own agency."
It is past midnight now and dinner - £550 plus £100 for the food and wine - is over.
As we walk towards the lift doors, she turns to go upstairs but I carry on into the lobby. "Can I see you another night?" I ask. "Of course," she smiles, trying to hide her disappointment at missing out on turning £650 into a £1,000 night.
It's cold outside and I hail a cab for her. She kisses me once on the left cheek and once on the right before getting in. As the car moves off I wave but her eyes are fixed straight ahead. Discreet and booming it may be, but the escort business is a business like any other. And my time is up.
Reader views (12)
Quite an interesting article but the comments made by Tina make her sound very bitter and twisted. It’s the oldest profession in the world and it will never stop. If a man buys a woman a pair of shoes and she sleeps with him is this not the same as being a London escort? Another question to ask many of these twisted woman who find it cheap and degrading is would they prefer their husband to have an affair in the office with his PA or opt for an escort every 3 months. Even better why doesn’t the wife, husband and escort get involved? Everyone’s a winner!
- Jasmine, London UK, 26/10/2010 19:45
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David, don't be ridiculous!! everybody knows that the girl Never or hardly ever chooses a client !! Behind the doors is simple, or You have your way or he has his way, or agency could sack you for refusing the client !!
It's an explotation of a women of a human beings and That's the plain truth! here in the hotels/ houses instead of the street... for majority of escorts with pure budget for self marketing or a stable family/ housing/ job in London... and that's the truth!!
- tina, London, 13/09/2010 23:59
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Wow £ 4000!!,She must have been exceptionaly "gifted " or the Pimp's favorite!! I accidently and out of necessity 2 pay a rent of £ 120 started escorting.. my rate was going from £ 60 ( agency 120ph) to £ 120( agency £ 350).After 8 months I managed to get away with £2000 roken face by a lady and a although I was rare one who by the end had the most extensions but have never remmember someone to have booked me Independently ( although I had a site). When One writes about escorting maybe should try mention all the other negative effects instead of Glorifyng it!!
Find a student or unemployed help her out.. maybe she would be your perfect escort!
- tina, London, 13/09/2010 23:53
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As a man who has worked on the creative side of the fence in the escort industry for over 10 years I can safely say that I have seen girls from poor families and multi millionaire's daughters, even policewomen, working as so called high class escorts. It's a job just like any other to people of a certain age. Yes of course there will be bad people pushing girls to work and taking money from them but with properly run high class escort agencies such as http://www.kingsmistress.com decent girls can work on their own terms and jump in and out of the industry when it pleases them. Escort agencies certain do a good job. In London, before the internet, certain streets were awash with girls 'looking for business'. Now the streets are empty, there's less humiliation and the police's job is effectively being done for them. I wish the media would just leave escorts alone and let them get on with their jobs.
- David Summerfield, London, 14/08/2010 21:43
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Escorting rocks!
I love my job and wouldn't have it any other way.
It takes a certain mind set though
and most people are totally unsuited to it.
They end up despising themselves and their clients.
Several of my friends also escort, and they hate everything, bar the money.
Oh, I also have a two partners, male and female, they know and are ok with it
and my parents know and are supportive.
Approach and style are everything.
Treat it as the high potential earnings business that it can be and the rewards are readily obtainable.
Finally, I know a number of other escorts who are having a fraction of my success.
I'm no prettier,the difference is approach.
Life is good, very good.
- JodieTs, London, 03/08/2010 15:15
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why is it so looked apon to be a escort? if u enjoy it, then why stop doing it.. as long as there are man/women out there willing to pay for the company of a escort. there is always going to be a need for them!!!! good luck to all escorts, thats what i say x
- ruby, norfolk uk, 30/06/2010 12:07
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Lucky her,wish I could make £4000 a week ! Many men just use women for sex and other comforts so being paid at least adjust the balance.
- Anna, surrey,uk, 01/04/2010 00:45
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Great life style for a short period of time. But there is always going to be the sceleton in the closet for the rest of her life.
- Natalie, uk, 06/02/2010 18:18
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I think it is wonderful that we are an open and tolerant country allowing the sex industry to be run so professionally and out in the open, it makes it safe and fun for everyone!
Though I do think its much better that the girls find a good agency to work with rather than street walking.
I worked in a brothel in New Zealand while I was there on holiday and I must say they are dealing fantastically with the industry too. Great working holiday was had!
- Zoe Mac Donald, London UK, 26/08/2009 05:22
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hy i would like 2 apply for job
- Dellya, london uk, 06/08/2009 13:40
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i want a man
- Unusa, bristol /london, 11/05/2009 21:33
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It would appear that the high class end is slowly going out of fashion. With the recent documentary on ITV regarding call girls and the Belle de Jour diary it's only now that the mainstream are getting an insight into the (less seedier than I imagined) lives of these girls.
Where will this all end? Are we to become as open about this topic as say the Netherlands?
- Philip, Medway, UK, 01/10/2007 10:35
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