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Race row police chief may see wife in court
Rashid Razaq5 Sep 2008
Race row police chief Tarique Ghaffur could face an acrimonious divorce battle, it was revealed today.
The Scotland Yard assistant commissioner has told his wife of 20 years that he wants to end their marriage with a "no fault" divorce.
But she has told friends that she will not accept the split and will fight any such move.
The Assistant Commissioner, who is embroiled in one of the largest racial discrimination cases to be brought against the Met, could now face a second legal battle.
It is believed Mr Ghaffur has formally asked his wife Shehla, 42, a primary school teacher, to agree to a no fault divorce on the grounds that the marriage has " irretrievably broken down" as the couple have been living apart for two years.
Mrs Ghaffur, his second wife with whom he has two teenage children, is said to have been notified of the request this week.
She lives in Manchester with their children, where Mr Ghaffur began his policing career and rose through the ranks before moving to London as Britain's most senior Muslim officer.
But his marriage has run into trouble after he developed a friendship with Rubina Haider, a 44-yearold mother-of-two.
He has become increasingly close to the divorcée since beginning the friendship about a year ago. The pair have been seen in public with Mr Ghaffur taking Ms Haider to official engagements and posing for photographs with her at an Asian awards ceremony.
Ms Haider is a department store sales assistant who lives in southwest London.
A friend of Mrs Ghaffur said: "Shehla doesn't want to divorce him for the sake of the kids.
"She has been loyal to him and supported him throughout his career. She hopes he will come back to her and the children."
The friend added: "Tarique is trying to get her to divorce quietly. He can't risk the bad publicity, especially at a time like this. He's already been divorced once."
Mr Ghaffur is in contact with his wife and children, making regular visits to the family home in Manchester. It is understood Mr Ghaffur had expressed a desire to return to Manchester after he retired.
There is no suggestion Mr Ghaffur's divorce is linked to the case he has brought against Sir Ian Blair.
Mr Ghaffur has filed a multi-million pound claim against his employers on the grounds he has been treated less favourably than other officers as he is Muslim and Asian. He also alleges Scotland Yard refused to extend his contract beyond a year as he is over 50.
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His wife clearly wants nothing to do with him. She has even taken his children from him, but she's in it for the spite and the money. Good one.
- Pat Riarchy, Cairns, Australia, 30/05/2010 14:46
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"This man is a disgrace and parasite," I would not say that, being a muslim he can have 4 wives, he is only following his religion to the latter. Good luck to him.
- Surj, london/uk, 28/09/2008 23:13
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This man is a disgrace and a parasite!
Looks like he only wants a quickie divorce to stop his wife getting half of any compensation he might get if he wins. No wonder the woman is digging her heels in, I don't blame her!
- Triffid Queen, London, 28/09/2008 22:13
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Ahhhh, now we can see why he is suing everyone in sight...needs the dosh, innit!
- St, London, 28/09/2008 22:13
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How can he say he is being discriminated against for being a Muslim when he obviously doesn't believe in the vows he took for marriage. Surely he cannot be religious and hence cannot describe himself as a Muslim.
- Charlie, London, UK, 28/09/2008 22:13
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