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David Furnish and  Sir Elton John
Sir Elton John and David Furnish had a civil partnership ceremony the day they became legal in 2005

Honeymoon over for gay marriage as fewer tie the knot

Sri Carmichael, Consumer Affairs Reporter
4 Aug 2009


Stars including Sir Elton John and Matt Lucas led the rush to "marry" their partners in the weeks after gay civil partnerships became legal.

High-profile politicians, including Culture Secretary Ben Bradshaw and the shadow leader of the Commons Alan Duncan, as well as television presenter Clare Balding, followed suit.

But three and a half years on, the honeymoon appears to be over.

The number of ceremonies registered in London plummeted 18 per cent last year, the third full year that unions were permitted, following a fall of nearly 50 per cent in 2007.

In London 1,729 gay couples entered into partnerships last year compared with 2,110 in 2007, according to the Office for National Statistics. The sustained slump in gay weddings is mirrored nationwide.

Gay community leaders said the fall was a "normalising process" after the initial surge in demand for ceremonies from couples who had been together for years.

Alice Arnold and Clare Balding
Alice Arnold and Clare Balding are still together
But they acknowledged that younger gay and lesbian couples were less keen than older generations to make their relationships official, suggesting the attraction may wane in the long run. The average age of those entering same-sex unions in Britain is nearly 41.

Gay rights campaigner Peter Tatchell said: "After civil partnerships were legislated there was a huge surge of older couples who had been together for decades who wished to take advantage of the legal recognition.

"Now we've settled into a pattern of civil partnership take-up which reflects people who have recently fallen in love. But just like younger generations of heterosexual couples who often prefer to cohabit, young gay and lesbian couples aren't so concerned about formalising the legal status of their relationship."

Westminster has retained its position as the most popular place in Britain for gay weddings, with 282 last year. Kensington and Chelsea and Islington were also in the top five, registering 147 and 140.

Kevin McGee and Matt Lucas
Kevin McGee and Matt Lucas “divorced”
The number of gay "divorces", where civil partnerships are dissolved, rose to 180 last year across, up from 42 in 2007. Couples must wait 12 months before they can end their union.

Little Britain comedian Matt Lucas had the first celebrity gay "divorce" in October last year, when he ended his relationship with television producer Kevin McGee. The couple married in 2006.

The Government introduced civil partnerships in December 2005. Sir Elton John and his partner David Furnish had a civil ceremony on the first day they became legal in England.

Heterosexual marriages in England and Wales fell by 3.3 per cent in 2007 to 231,450, the lowest since 1895.

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It doesn`t matter who you love, just try to stay together and save Gay Marriage.

- Joe, Exeter, U.S., 05/08/2009 14:41
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It is not really surprising - A regular pattern and a natural levelling off will appear over time. It's also not surprising that people are unwilling to spend thousands of pounds on civil partnerships or wedding ceremonies in the middle of a recession.

- Paul, Hackney, UK, 05/08/2009 14:05
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Lets hope the divorce courts are not flooded now; they say the grass is always greener on the other side of the hill; then they find out its not.

You can't please everyone; all of the time.

- Mickinlondon, london., 04/08/2009 16:03
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This is not a 'slump'. The first couple of years of a higher number of ceremonies were where couples who had been together for a long time finally being able to have a ceremony. Had that option been there all along then I'm sure the number of some of these ceremonies would have taken place years ago and would now be relatively static but after decades (since homosexuality was deemed non criminal) of not being allowed to have a ceremony there was, of course, a 'rush' when it became legal.

As regards to divorce - the national figure for straight couples is over 33%

- Andy, london, 04/08/2009 15:38
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